As I am having a massive CRUSH and proper MELTDOWN with my work colleague, who has got a gf, is born on the same day as my ex (whom I have broken up with for various personality-crash reasons that both of them share inevitably), is 24 (and I am 28!!) and I am getting a headache just thinking of all the reasons I shouldn't.... I have decided I need some sort of sanity check to keep me on track. The track that consists of: it's nice to be in love, longing for someone, but NEVER actually get into a relationship with this guy because we will break up after 3 years!
So I've decided to google things about our personalities and how we would astrologically match - or not match in this case in a relationship. Things to read when I need a sanity check, things that will keep me focused on this just being a temporary fling. So this is for a Cancer Man and a Gemini Woman.
Just hoping that I will fall out of love just as fast as I have fallen down the rabbit hole with this one. Because I might set a new personal record on how many people's lives I can screw up at once - mine's, his and his girlfriend's, as well as some other guys' lives - whom I am seeing at the moment. And none are as unattainable as s. is and the last time I've felt like this was with P. - my ex. I've got issues, ok? Massive, Massive issues!
"Initially, things would go fine for the two, but the happiness would not last. Though she would like his passionate and considerate nature, it would, after some time, look more of a confinement to her. Whilst the Cancer male looks for commitment and stability in the relationship, the Gemini female would demand freedom and independence. She also has a flirtatious nature and needs change every now and then, contrasting with his rigidity. The crab always craves for love and attention, the more, the better. However, she will be too busy to fulfill this particular need. The relationship can only work if both of them are willing to make lots of adjustment.
Cancer boys are clingy. His suspicious nature may make him accuse her of being interested in other men and thus may harm the compatibility. Her explanations may not convince him thus making her tired of the Cancer guy. Initial attraction may arise from Cancer boy’s passionate nature. He is born for commitments and there is no place for long lasting bonds in her dictionary. She needs to control her flirtatious nature and give her love and support which a Cancerian yearns for.
Cancer has an extremely good memory, and Gemini has great wit and charm. The two of them have conversations like a good game of tennis. They are both big dreamers and have vivid imaginations, and both adore attention. They are also both inclined to laugh in public, and cry in private.
Geminis prefer to dart around all over and talk about all their ideas and dreams. Cancers do not enjoy communicating their secrets and prefer to run the show.
In friendship, business, love, and relationships Gemini women do not cling. They hold onto everything loose and casually, they let go too easily and sometimes too soon. Cancer hangs onto things for dear life. They like the familiarity of what they have that feels comforting and familiar. Cancer men love their home, a good comfort food meal, and 99% of them are mama's boys. They are impressionable and sensitive men and when pushed into their shell the Gemini woman can usually sweet talk them out.
When Cancer's possessiveness crosses with Geminis constant need for freedom the clash can cut their dreams and relationship. You see there are two or more women inside of every Gemini woman. One that will want to stay closely by his side, and one that will want to gallivant around and do whatever pleases her. He will not be fond of that.
Gemini women are mental wanderers, drifters, cut loose from all ties, emotionally homeless, lost and seeking the eternal child. A Cancer is the eternal father who is protective, warm, and comforting. No wonder these two are drawn to one another.
She admires his chivalry and he loves to cherish her multiple personality display. But to realize that his lover is not just a woman who craves to be protected by him but is also one to wander when she feels the need to spread her wings and fly is not too easily digested by him and this can create some small problems.
The sexual relationship between Gemini woman and Cancer man is quite inspiring and extremely enjoyable to both. Cancer man’s sensitive nature is likely to mix well with Gemini woman’s ever changing ideas. A Gemini girl is one for having sudden ideas. She may have some changeable ideas about passion. He is quite capable at changing to her needs, making this union one that is easily understandable and quite strong as time passes by. Their love making is usually irresistible as their passion is unbeatable and the satisfaction they get in their oneness is above anything experienced by them in past. Constant change benefits them both in that there is never a boredom of repetition. He may even throw in a little surprise or two of his own. He feels special when she portrays her need for his affection and when he makes love to her he shows her a warmth and protection that her child like heart melts to.
Gemini woman shall try to persuade her Cancer man into pretty much anything she is interested in, especially when it comes to travel. She may leave if he restricts her on a flight of fancy while her lover waits patiently retreating into seclusion. Cancer man sulks and draws himself back as he craves to have her back in his arms. He needs to be tolerant of the Gemini faults of restlessness and detachment and she should cultivate virtues of patience and sensitivity. They can find their share of happy together, but it will take patience on her part and some adaptability on his."
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